You spend 20 minutes scrolling through Hinge's prompt library. Nothing feels right. Everything sounds generic. You finally pick three prompts at random, type in lazy answers, and wonder why nobody's messaging you back.
Here's the truth: most people pick the wrong prompts. Worse, they answer them poorly.
After analyzing thousands of successful Hinge profiles and testing dozens of prompts, I've ranked every major Hinge prompt from S-tier (absolute gold) to trash tier (delete immediately). This guide shows you which prompts get matches and which ones kill conversations before they start.
Let's break it down.
Your photos get people to stop scrolling. Your prompts get them to start typing.
According to relationship experts at PureWow, well-crafted prompts trigger "disclosure reciprocity" - when you share something genuine, people feel compelled to share back. That's the psychological hook that turns a profile view into a conversation.
The best prompts do three things at once:
Most profiles fail at all three. Yours won't after reading this.
These prompts work for almost everyone. They're versatile, conversation-friendly, and nearly impossible to mess up. Start here.
The crown jewel of Hinge prompts. Works as both a personality showcase and a first-date suggestion. Can be serious or humorous without feeling forced.
Why it works: Gives matches a clear vision of what spending time with you looks like. Makes it stupid easy for them to suggest meeting up.
Example responses that get replies:
Skip the generic "travel the world" answers. Get specific. Get weird.
Your enthusiasm sells itself. This prompt lets you talk about what you love without sounding like a resume.
Why it works: Passion is magnetic. When you genuinely care about something, people want to know more.
Example responses:
Don't say "food" or "music." Everyone likes those. Name the specific thing that lights you up.
Not quite S-tier, but these prompts still generate quality matches when answered well.
Perfect for dealing with potential dealbreakers early. Sets expectations without sounding negative.
Example responses:
Shows ambition without the humble-brag trap. Best when specific rather than vague.
Example responses:
Get your profile reviewed to see if your life goals are landing or falling flat.
The playful soulmate prompt. Shows your quirky side while fishing for people who get it.
Example responses:
Functions as both filter and invitation. Shows what you value while encouraging specific types of responses.
Example responses:
These aren't bad, but they require extra effort to stand out. Most people answer them poorly.
Can work if you have a genuinely funny story. Falls flat with generic answers.
Good example: "A potato with my face printed on it (long story involving a college bet)"
Bad example: "Socks" (okay, and?)
Only works if you're being playfully controversial, not actually divisive. Stay away from politics.
Example responses:
Too often devolves into "tacos!" or "pizza!" Get creative or skip it entirely.
Better example: "Letting me eat the last fry without asking (it's sacred)"
Watch out for humble-brag territory. Everyone's done skydiving and moved to a new city.
Stand out with: "Quitting my job to become a professional dog walker (no regrets)"
These prompts invite boring, generic responses. You can make them work, but why fight uphill?
The most overused, under-thought prompt on Hinge. Everyone says coffee, farmers market, and Netflix.
If you must use it: "Convincing myself I'll be productive, then watching true crime docs for six hours straight"
Clean sheets. Coffee. Good books. We get it. Everyone likes those things.
Try this instead: Pick something specific that actually matters to you, not what sounds nice.
Two answers dominate this prompt: buying last-minute plane tickets and moving somewhere new. Both are boring now.
Can work if your facts sound unhinged. Usually ends up as humble-bragging in disguise.
Good example: "I once had a crush on a banana. I have a back tattoo. I've never been to the Bahamas."
Make people guess. That's the whole point.
Ninety percent of answers are "good communication" and "sense of humor." This tells us nothing.
Stand out with specifics: "You appreciate well-placed sarcasm" or "You hold doors even when it's awkwardly far away"
These prompts actively hurt your profile. Swipe past them.
Everyone says "just ask." This prompt is useless filler.
Fries. Nachos. Apps. Nobody cares.
Ninety-five percent say "physical touch." This should be a profile setting, not a prompt.
Just a list of cities. Zero personality. Zero conversation value.
Skip these entirely. You have better options.
Picking the right prompt is half the battle. The other half is writing answers that spark conversations.
Here's the formula:
Bad: "I love to travel"
Good: "I've eaten street food in 15 countries and still think NYC hot dogs are top tier"
Specificity creates hooks. Vague answers create dead ends.
Write like you talk. If you wouldn't say it out loud, don't type it.
Your prompts should sound like you, not like every other profile. Use your actual sense of humor. Reference your weird interests. Be the person you'd want to grab drinks with.
Every answer should give matches something to comment on.
Test: Can someone easily respond to this with a question or observation? If not, rewrite.
Forced humor falls flat. Natural personality wins every time.
If you're funny, great. If you're thoughtful, lean into that. If you're playful, show it. Don't contort yourself into someone you're not.
Never say:
You get three prompt slots. Use them strategically.
Slot 1: Personality Hook
Choose something that shows who you are. "Together We Could" or "I Geek Out On" work great here.
Slot 2: Conversation Starter
Pick something that makes responding easy. "You Should Leave a Comment If" or "The One Thing I'd Love to Know About You Is" invite replies.
Slot 3: Filter or Flex
Either set an expectation ("What If I Told You That") or show something impressive without bragging ("Unusual Skills").
This mix gives people multiple entry points to start a conversation.
Even with the right prompts, bad execution ruins everything.
Trying to appeal to every possible match makes you appealing to none. Pick a lane. Your people will find you.
Safe is boring. Boring gets ignored. Share actual opinions. Reveal genuine quirks. The worst profiles are the ones nobody remembers.
Templates are starting points, not copy-paste solutions. Customize everything to sound like you.
Refresh your prompts every few months. What worked in summer might feel stale by winter. Keep your profile current.
Hinge now lets you record 30-second audio or video responses. These stand out massively.
According to dating experts at The Everygirl, voice prompts help people gauge chemistry before matching. Your tone, energy, and delivery matter more than perfect words.
Try recording:
Voice prompts get 40% more engagement than text. Use them.
Track what works. Hinge shows you how many people viewed each part of your profile.
Check your stats monthly:
Double down on what works. Kill what doesn't.
If you're not seeing results, try our AI chat helper to optimize your conversation starters and prompt responses.
Most people pick prompts at random and write forgettable answers. That's why most profiles get ignored.
You now know:
Start with "Together We Could" and "I Geek Out On." Answer them specifically. Show personality. Create hooks.
Your matches will thank you.
Need help generating the perfect answers? Try our AI bio generator to craft responses that match your personality and attract your ideal matches.
The top-performing prompts are "Together We Could," "I Geek Out On," and "You Should Leave a Comment If." These prompts naturally encourage conversation and showcase personality without forcing it. According to TinderProfile.AI's analysis, these three consistently generate the highest response rates.
You must use exactly three prompts. Choose one personality hook, one conversation starter, and one that either filters matches or flexes an interesting quality. This combination gives people multiple ways to start talking to you.
Yes. Voice prompts get significantly higher engagement than text alone. They let matches hear your tone and energy, which builds connection faster than written words. Just keep them natural and conversational.
Update your prompts every 2-3 months. Refreshing your profile signals to Hinge's algorithm that you're active, which can boost your visibility. Plus, you might discover better prompts or have new stories to share.
Skip "The Best Way to Ask Me Out Is," "What I Order for the Table," and "My Love Language Is." These prompts consistently generate boring, generic answers that don't help you stand out or start conversations.
No. Copied answers sound fake and won't match your photos or personality. Use examples as inspiration, then write responses that actually sound like you. Authenticity beats cleverness every time.
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