How to Write Points in Hinge (Complete Prompt Guide)

Learning how to write points in Hinge is the difference between generic answers that get ignored and prompts that make people stop scrolling and actually message you.

If you're on Hinge trying to figure out how to stand out, you're not alone.

The app is different from Tinder or Bumble because it's built around prompts (what some people call "points"). Instead of writing one long bio, you're answering specific questions with short, punchy responses.

Here's the problem. Most people treat Hinge prompts like a chore. They throw up boring answers like "I love to laugh and travel" and wonder why nobody's messaging them.

Your Hinge prompts are your first impression. They're what make someone decide to like your profile or swipe left. According to Hinge's own data, profiles with thoughtful prompt answers get 3x more matches than profiles with lazy ones.

In this guide, I'll show you how to write points in Hinge that actually get results. You'll learn what makes a good prompt answer, how to use bullet points for better formatting, and see 50+ examples you can customize.

Let's get into it.

What Are "Points" on Hinge?

First, let's clear up the confusion. When people talk about "points" on Hinge, they usually mean one of two things:

1. Prompts (the questions you answer)

Hinge gives you a list of prompts to choose from. These are the questions like:

• "Dating me is like..."
• "I'm looking for..."
• "My simple pleasures..."
• "The way to my heart is..."

You pick three prompts and write answers to them. These answers become your profile.

2. Bullet points (the formatting)

Some people want to know how to actually create bullet points in their Hinge answers to make lists. More on this later.

For this guide, we'll cover both. How to write great prompt answers AND how to use bullet point formatting when it makes sense.

Why Your Hinge Prompts Matter More Than You Think

Your photos get someone to pause on your profile. But your prompts? They're what make someone actually hit the like button.

Research from dating app studies shows that people spend an average of 7-10 seconds on a dating profile before deciding to swipe. Your prompts need to work fast.

Here's what good Hinge prompts do:

They show personality. Photos show what you look like. Prompts show who you are. A funny, specific prompt tells matches more about you than a dozen selfies.

They give conversation starters. When someone likes your profile, they can comment directly on your prompts. Good answers make it easy for matches to start conversations.

They filter for compatibility. If you write about loving horror movies and someone who hates them swipes left, that's a good thing. You want matches who vibe with who you actually are.

They prove you put in effort. Taking time to write thoughtful prompts shows you're serious about finding someone. Generic answers suggest you're not.

The data backs this up. Hinge found that users who write detailed, specific prompt answers get significantly more likes and matches than those who write one-word or generic responses.

Your prompts are working even when you're not on the app. Make them count.

How to Write Effective Points (Prompts) on Hinge

Let's break down the strategy for writing prompts that actually work.

Pick the Right Prompts

Hinge offers over 100 prompts. Don't just pick the first three you see.

Choose prompts that:

• Let you show personality
• Give specific information about you
• Create conversation hooks
• Differentiate you from other profiles

Good prompt choices:

• "Dating me is like..." (lets you be creative and funny)
• "I'm looking for..." (shows what you want clearly)
• "My simple pleasures..." (reveals what makes you happy)
• "The way to my heart is..." (gives concrete interests)
• "I go crazy for..." (shows passion)

Skip these prompts:

• "I'm overly competitive about..." (overdone, rarely interesting)
• "Change my mind about..." (often comes off negative)
• "A life goal of mine..." (can sound too serious or generic)

Pick prompts that match your personality. If you're funny, choose prompts where humor works. If you're romantic, pick ones that let you show that side.

Be Specific, Not Generic

This is the single biggest mistake people make.

Generic answer: "I love to travel and try new foods"Specific answer: "I've eaten street tacos in 15 different countries and I'm convinced the best ones are still in my hometown"

See the difference? The specific answer creates a mental image, shows personality, and gives matches something to respond to.

Generic answer: "I'm looking for someone fun and honest"Specific answer: "I'm looking for someone who will debate pizza toppings at 2 AM and admit when they're wrong about pineapple"

Specificity makes you memorable. Generic answers make you forgettable.

Show, Don't Tell

Don't just say you're funny. Write something funny.

Don't just say you're adventurous. Describe a specific adventure.

Don't just say you're caring. Give an example that demonstrates it.

Telling: "I'm a caring person who loves dogs"Showing: "I volunteer at the animal shelter every Sunday and somehow always come home smelling like wet dog"

The second one proves you're caring while being specific and a little funny.

Create Conversation Hooks

Your prompts should make it easy for matches to message you.

End with a question, make a controversial claim, or reference something specific that invites response.

Weak hook: "I love movies"Strong hook: "The Godfather Part III is actually good. Change my mind"

The second one begs for a response. Someone will either agree or passionately disagree. Either way, you've got a conversation.

Balance Humor with Sincerity

You don't need to be a comedian. But humor helps you stand out.

The sweet spot? Mix funny answers with one sincere one that shows what you're actually looking for.

Example combination:

1. Funny prompt about your quirks
2. Sincere prompt about what you're looking for
3. Interesting prompt about your passions

This balance shows personality without being all jokes or all serious.

Keep It Concise

Hinge prompts have a 150-character limit for a reason. People scroll fast.

Get to the point quickly. Every word should add value.

Too long: "I really love going to the movies, especially on rainy Sunday afternoons when I can just relax and watch something interesting without thinking about work or anything stressful"

Just right: "Rainy Sundays = movie marathons. Currently rewatching LOTR for the 12th time"

Shorter answers are easier to read and remember.

How to Use Bullet Points in Hinge Prompts

Now let's talk about actual bullet point formatting. Some prompts work really well as lists.

When to Use Bullet Points

Bullet points work best for prompts like:

• "My simple pleasures..."
• "I go crazy for..."
• "I'm looking for..."
• "Green flags I look for..."

They don't work as well for narrative prompts like "Dating me is like..." or storytelling prompts.

How to Create Bullet Points on Hinge

Here's the technical part most people miss.

On Android:

1. Hold down the dash/minus (-) button on your keyboard
2. A few other dash options will appear
3. Select the bullet point (•) from the options
4. Type your list item
5. Hit enter and repeat

On iPhone:

1. Go to your keyboard settings
2. Enable text replacement
3. Create a shortcut for the bullet character (•)
4. Or use the emoji keyboard and search for "bullet"
5. The • character should appear

Alternative method for both:You can also use:

• The asterisk (*) as a bullet alternative
• The dash (-) for a cleaner list look
• Numbers (1., 2., 3.) for ordered lists

Examples of Good Bullet Point Answers

Here are prompts that work well with bullet formatting:

Prompt: "My simple pleasures..."

• Sunday morning coffee with nowhere to be
• Finding the perfect parking spot
• When my dog actually comes when I call him
• The first bite of pizza when it's the perfect temperature

Prompt: "I'm looking for..."

• Someone who laughs at their own jokes
• A partner in trying every taco place in the city
• Someone who gets that The Office peaked in season 3
• A person who won't judge my Spotify wrapped

Prompt: "Green flags I look for..."

• Tips well at restaurants
• Has a good relationship with their family
• Laughs when they're wrong
• Leaves their phone face-down on dates

Prompt: "I go crazy for..."

• Fresh bread from the bakery
• Dogs who think they're lap dogs
• Finding money in old jacket pockets
• That first sip of morning coffee

See how bullet points make these answers easy to scan and remember?

When NOT to Use Bullet Points

Bullet points aren't right for every prompt. Skip them when:

• The prompt asks for a story or narrative
• You're trying to be funny with a one-liner
• The prompt is asking for a comparison ("Dating me is like...")
• You want to create intrigue or mystery

Use bullet points strategically, not on every prompt.

50+ Examples of Great Hinge Prompts

Let's look at proven prompt answers across different categories.

Funny and Playful Prompts

"Dating me is like..."

• Finding the last slice of pizza and realizing nobody else wanted it
• A museum tour but the guide keeps getting distracted by shiny things
• Ordering delivery and it arriving 20 minutes early

"The way to win me over is..."

• Make me laugh so hard I snort. Then don't make fun of the snort
• Show me your weirdest Spotify playlist
• Beat me at Mario Kart (nobody has yet)

"I'm convinced that..."

• Breakfast food is acceptable at all hours
• Dogs can tell when you're having a bad day
• The Office quotes work for every life situation

Sincere and Relationship-Focused Prompts

"I'm looking for..."

• Someone who can handle my family's chaos at Thanksgiving
• A partner who wants to build something real, not just something Instagram-worthy
• Someone who will split the last slice with me

"The way to my heart is..."

• Remember the little things I mention in passing
• Make time for me even when life gets busy
• Let me be vulnerable without making it weird

"I'm most attracted to..."

• People who are kind to servers and strangers
• Someone who has their own passions and interests
• Emotional intelligence and self-awareness

Interest and Hobby-Based Prompts

"I go crazy for..."

• Live music, especially when it's a band nobody's heard of yet
• Hiking trails that end with a view worth the climb
• Cooking elaborate meals I'll probably mess up

"My simple pleasures..."

• Saturday morning farmers markets
• Reading in a coffee shop while it rains outside
• That feeling after a really good workout

"A perfect day includes..."

• Sleeping in, good coffee, and zero plans
• Brunch with friends followed by a new hiking trail
• Discovering a bookstore I've never been to

Conversation Starter Prompts

"We'll get along if..."

• You can name all the original 151 Pokemon
• You have strong opinions about which Star Wars trilogy is best
• You think pineapple on pizza is acceptable (or we can argue about it)

"Don't hate me if..."

• I've never seen The Godfather
• I put ketchup on mac and cheese
• I'm always 5 minutes late (I'm working on it)

"I'm weirdly attracted to..."

• People who get genuinely excited about mundane things
• Someone with a perfectly organized spice cabinet
• People who quote The Office at the right moments

Creative and Unique Prompts

"I won't shut up about..."

• Why The Lord of the Rings extended editions are superior
• My theory that all conspiracy theories are just bad improv
• The perfect way to make scrambled eggs

"Unusual skills I have..."

• I can name that song in 3 notes or less
• I'm undefeated at rock paper scissors
• I can fall asleep anywhere in under 5 minutes

"My most irrational fear is..."

• Waving at someone who's waving at the person behind me
• Being asked "what's new" and realizing nothing is new
• Running into my ex at the one place I said I'd never go

What Makes a Bad Hinge Prompt Answer

Now for what NOT to do. These mistakes kill your match rate:

Generic Answers That Could Be Anyone

• "I love to laugh and have fun"
• "Looking for my partner in crime"
• "I love travel and food"
• "Just a laid-back person looking for someone real"

These could be on literally anyone's profile. They say nothing about who you actually are.

Negative or Bitter Answers

• "No drama, no games"
• "Sick of people who only want hookups"
• "Don't message me if you're boring"
• "Tired of being ghosted"

Nobody swipes right on negativity. Keep it positive or skip it.

Answers That Are Just Physical Descriptions

• "I'm 6'2" and go to the gym"
• "I've been told I'm attractive"
• "Looking for someone who can keep up with me physically"

Your photos already show what you look like. Use prompts to show personality.

Try-Hard or Cringe Answers

• "I'm not like other guys/girls"
• "I'm a gentleman/lady in the streets, a freak in the sheets"
• "Looking for my ride or die"
• "I'm the whole package"

These make people cringe, not swipe right.

One-Word Answers

• "Pizza" (for "I go crazy for...")
• "Dogs" (for "My simple pleasures...")
• "Adventures" (for "I'm looking for...")

One-word answers look lazy. Put in the effort.

Advanced Strategies for Hinge Prompts

Once you've got the basics down, try these next-level tactics:

The Specificity Test

For every prompt answer you write, ask yourself: Could this apply to anyone else?

If yes, make it more specific.

Generic: "I love coffee"More specific: "I've tried every coffee shop in a 5-mile radius and I'm convinced the best one is in someone's garage"

The Voice Text Trick

Write your prompt answers like you're telling a friend about yourself.

Talk into your phone's voice-to-text, then edit for clarity. This keeps your answers conversational and natural.

The Three-Prompt Strategy

Balance your three prompts:

1. One funny/playful prompt
2. One sincere/relationship-focused prompt
3. One interest/hobby-based prompt

This shows you're well-rounded without being all jokes or all serious.

The Conversation Hook Formula

End prompts with:

• A question ("What's yours?")
• A controversial take ("Change my mind")
• An invitation ("Let's debate this")
• A challenge ("Beat me at...")

This makes it easy for matches to comment on your profile.

The Update Strategy

Change one prompt every 2-3 weeks. This does two things:

1. Gives you fresh matches who might have passed on your old prompts
2. Shows the algorithm you're actively using the app (better visibility)

Don't change all three at once. Test what works.

How to Know If Your Prompts Are Working

Track your results to see what's landing:

Good signs:

• Matches comment on specific prompts
• You get likes with comments, not just likes
• Conversations start naturally from your prompts
• People reference your answers in messages

Bad signs:

• You get likes but no comments
• Conversations die after "hey"
• Matches ask basic questions your prompts already answered
• Your match rate is low despite good photos

If your prompts aren't working, change them. Test different styles until you find what works for you.

Common Questions About Writing Hinge Prompts

How many prompts should I use?

Hinge requires three prompts minimum. Use all three. More information gives matches more to connect with.

Should I use emojis in my prompts?

A few emojis are fine, but don't overdo it. One or two per prompt max. They should enhance, not replace words.

Can I use the same prompt as someone else?

Everyone uses the same prompt options. What matters is your unique answer.

How often should I change my prompts?

Every 2-4 weeks, change one prompt to keep your profile fresh. Test what gets better responses.

Should my prompts match my photos?

Yes. If your photos show you hiking, mention outdoor activities in prompts. Don't contradict yourself.

Is it okay to be sarcastic in prompts?

Light sarcasm works if it's clearly playful. Heavy sarcasm can seem negative or mean. Test carefully.

Can I copy prompt answers from articles?

Use examples as inspiration, but customize them. Your prompts should sound like you, not a template.

Should I mention what I don't want?

Focus on what you DO want, not what you don't. Positive framing is more attractive.

The Psychology Behind Great Hinge Prompts

Understanding why certain prompts work helps you write better ones:

Specificity Creates Connection

When you mention specific interests, people who share them feel instant connection.

"I love music" → anyone could say this"I've seen The National live 7 times" → connects with specific fans

Humor Shows Intelligence

Research shows people who can make others laugh are perceived as more intelligent and socially skilled.

A funny prompt proves you have these traits without bragging about them.

Vulnerability Builds Trust

Showing a bit of vulnerability (done right) makes you seem genuine and approachable.

"Looking for someone who won't judge my 2 AM snack runs" shows vulnerability with humor.

Questions Reduce Friction

When you end a prompt with a question, you make it easier for matches to start conversations.

They don't have to think of an opener. You gave them one.

Hinge Prompts vs. Other Dating Apps

Hinge works differently than Tinder or Bumble:

Tinder has one open bio. You can say anything.

Bumble has prompts but they're optional. Many people skip them.

Hinge requires prompts. They're the main way you present yourself.

This means Hinge prompts need to work harder. You can't hide behind just photos.

But it also means people on Hinge actually read profiles. Your effort pays off.

Your Hinge Prompt Checklist

Before you publish your prompts, check:

• All three prompts are filled out completely
• Answers are specific, not generic
• At least one prompt shows personality/humor
• At least one prompt shows what you're looking for
• Answers are under 150 characters
• No spelling or grammar errors
• Prompts give conversation hooks
• Answers match the vibe of your photos
• You'd actually say these things in person
• Friends confirm answers sound like you

Final Thoughts on Writing Hinge Prompts

Here's the bottom line. Learning how to write points in Hinge isn't about being the funniest or most clever person on the app.

It's about showing who you actually are in a way that makes compatible people want to match with you.

The data is clear. Specific, thoughtful prompts get more matches than generic ones. Prompts that show personality attract better quality matches.

Use the strategies in this guide. Pick prompts that let you shine. Write specific answers that create conversation. Use bullet points when they make answers clearer.

Test what works. Update prompts that don't. Track which answers get the best responses.

Your Hinge prompts are working 24/7 for you. Make them work hard.

The right person is looking for someone exactly like you. Make sure your prompts show them who that is.

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